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Sunday, December 18, 2005

This entry is esp for hui si!
I also can understand what u r gg through cos I had a friend who is facing the exact same problem and I sometimes faced it myself. Thats problem with your parents. Gal: this is for u also! U may realised that its ur fault but u dont know what is it that u have done that makes ur parents so mad or how u can improve, right? its important to learn from young.

Hui si u may think I got no right to say u cos I m not doing any work at home. Ur words that day hit me so hard. U said that I have a maid and my parents treat me like gold. I tell u I may have a maid but I want to do chores myself isnt that what a woman have to do? Do u know that girls should choose their partners that have a good character and stable?Boys choose their partners as hardworking and tidy person? Because when u have a family the man have to work to support the family so after a long day work they hope that everything is done for them. A woman hopes that the husband appreciate what they have done. And to tell u the truth I always go qiufeng jie house cos I can help her up with house chores, and u should learn from her! she is the youngest in e family and yet she have the initiative to do chores and understand that her parents had a hard time at work!

Firstly, maybe u should try and treat doing chores as a form of training, for ur future. And gal it doesnt meant that u need to have a family but think ur parents cant be with u all the time!
Secondly, put urself in your parents shoes. Your mum esp. bringing up one child is a burden what about bringing up 5 children? Maybe we cant understand it but u will when one day u r a mother yourself! Take up the initiative to do everything properly. If u r careless, start from scratch do things slowly step by step, dont need to do it in a hurry u wont get things done properly. Its also training ur patience and to be more careful.
Lastly, you can improve by simply observing how ur mum does it and put ur heart and soul into the thing u r doing- that is to concentrate. Because u can only do it properly if u r concentrating just like studying. Dont think of other things when u r doing another.
Thats all, huisi I hope that u can go and think through and apologise for being so rude.
Gal, I hope u can take what I told my cousin as a form of “chan kao”.

Also. Qiufeng jie, thanks for bringing me back! Kapo but kapo till the end. I will! I love u!

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